At the time of farewell, especially for a bride entering a new phase of life, it is important to remember that Allah does not approve of anger.
وَالْكَاظِمِينَ الْغَيْظَ وَالْعَافِينَ عَنِ النَّاسِ وَاللَّهُ يُحِبُّ الْمُحْسِنِينَ
Those who restrain their anger and forgive people; Allah loves those who do good.
3:134
If we deeply reflect upon this, we realize that the one who gets angry harms himself first. When a person is angry, blood rushes rapidly through the body, the healthy waves of energy become disturbed, and the inner balance of the self is shaken. In anger, a person may commit such an action that he regrets for a lifetime.
It is said that the recitation of “يَا رَؤُوفُ” (Ya Ra’oofu) has a miraculous calming effect. It protects the heart from anger and softens the temperament. After the Isha prayer, recite Durood Shareef eleven times before and after reciting “Ya Ra’oofu”. This practice creates affection, mercy, and love within the heart, and one begins to see all of creation as brothers, sisters, parents, and children. In return, people also look upon him with love, respect, and sincere affection.
After the farewell, when a bride stands before her husband for the first time, if she recites “Ya Ra’oofu” seven times and gently blows upon herself, her husband will, by Allah’s will, remain kind, considerate, and affectionate toward her throughout life.